Oh my god youre straight? I had no idea. You seem normal to me. Did you know that Sara is straight to? You two should totally hook up. I cant believe youre straight. You could be my straight best friend. We could go to football games together. Itll be so much fun. So like how long have you been straight? Youre whole life!? No way.
“How can a gay man be homophobic? That doesn’t make any sense!”
On the surface, it does seem counter-intuitive to claim gay men could be homophobic. But when you take into account the effects our society has on gay men, particularly during adolescence, such a claim…
I need to post a conversation I recently had with a former lover about this.